…although you’re surrounded by people, you miss the one person who you could truly be yourself with. …you’re worried others in your family may die. …you’re worried you may die in the same way as your sibling. …there are things you wish you had said, but didn’t …you knew your sibling inside and out and yet you didn’t know about the struggles or hardships that led to their death. Okay, so those things aren’t specific to sibling grief, however, they might be experienced differently by someone grieving a brother or sister.

You may be experiencing grief over the death of your sibling if you feel any of the following – shock, numbness, sadness, despair, loneliness, isolation, difficulty concentrating, forgetfulness, irritability, anger, increased or decreased appetite, fatigue or sleeplessness, guilt, regret, depression, anxiety, crying, headaches, weakness, aches, pains, yearning, worry, frustration, detachment, isolation, questioning faith – to name a few. Okay, let’s talk about some of the reasons why the death of a sibling (at any age) is really stinking hard. At the end of the post, we’ll link to a resource page with suggestions for locating support locally and online. This post is long, but the last thing we want to do is create another resource that is overgeneralized and unhelpful. The more voices we have speaking on the subject, the more supported and cared for other grieving siblings will hopefully feel. Whatever you are able to contribute to the conversation in the comments and on social media, please do. Obviously, this is just a post and it doesn’t substitute for dedicated organizations, movements, or other types of support – but it’s a start. One reader even said she dubbed herself th e “forgotten mourner” after finding sibling grief was so often overlooked in the support world. Although some were able to make recommendations, many were quick to point out their struggle to find help and support for their loss. The other day I asked our Facebook community to suggest resources for people who’ve experienced the death of a sibling.

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